The House of Tomorrow

And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, "Speak to us of Children." 

And he said: Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. 

You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in the house of to-morrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. 

The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the Archer's hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

Copyright @ Kahlil Gibran.

image: Picasso

I read this passage from "The Prophet" many years before I became a mother.

I probably identified more with the role of the child at the time; these words confirming my belief that I was destined to separate from my parents' home, as well as their values and sensibilities.

Now I find solace in this poem as a parent. 
Here is my poem:

Broken hearts  broken dreams

God's arrows shot through me

to a world beyond mine

Their pain isn't mine

though I feel it in my bones

Their triumphs belong to them

yet I inhale them as a balm

The cord is cut
again and again

Although I yearn to cast a line
and fish them back to me,
they belong to "Life's
Longing" for itself.

I watch from a distance as they are swept away by the current, hoping to one day be reunited in a new world where my arms will once again enfold them.